So how Is YOUR Mental Health? Eh?

by Darin Hammond

art by Darin Hammond

Let’s shake ourselves out of the dark ages

and realize that one in four of our neigbours, friends and relatives

are suffering as you read this.

In fact if three of your closest friends and relatives seem fine,

 you’re probably the one who needs help!

Most people go to their G.P. for a physical once a year, make an appointment with a dentist to check for tooth decay but who ever thinks to have someone check up on their mental health?

While reading this suggestion, some people will confidently laugh off the implication that there might be something wrong with their mental health, others might nervously skim the rest of this post. This question is far from ridiculous,though. Have you taken a good look around lately? What do you see and hear?

The whole atmosphere of modern society is stressful because people are anxious about the economy and their job security. They have problems sleeping or self medicate with alcohol, drugs and cigarettes to help ‘take the edge off’. More and more sick days are the result of depression and other mental health issues. However it never enters most people’s minds to seek professional help until they are in a crisis or even must be committed. There still is a stigma attached to mental  illness.

Most of us who do seek help, gloss over our issues saying we go for counselling because any other label feels so damning.Post traumatic stress disorder, restless leg syndrome, depression, anxiety, sleep disorder, paranoia, panic attacks are labels that carry a terrible stigma. Often people become too ashamed to seek relief from professionals and it is no wonder that they do.

Society usually cannot fathom these unseen illnesses and resorts to age-old admonishments,

“Pull your self up by the boot straps.”

“Don’t be lazy.”

“What’s wrong with you, anyway?”

“You seem fine to me!”

I think that we try dismiss mental illness for several reasons. People are afraid of what they do not understand and perhaps even afraid that depression or anxiety is latent within themselves. So we yell at the ill, just like we are yelling at ourselves, hoping to out shout and shake our friend or relative as well as ourselves out of a funk.

Well I want to yell as well, only I want to yell from the roof tops that just like a person with poor eyesight need glasses and a diabetic needs insulin, some ordinary people have chemical imbalances and need prescription medicine.

It is that simple.

No shame.

No guilt.

A simple matter of serotonin levels.Of course we all need therapy to tackle other underlying issues but such rigorous self-examination is only possible once we are in chemical balance again. Let’s shake ourselves out of the dark ages and realize that one in four of our neigbours, friends and relatives are suffering as you read this. In fact if three of your closest friends and relatives seem fine, you’re probably the one who needs help!

10 thoughts on “So how Is YOUR Mental Health? Eh?

  1. Melanie, this such a good post. I say that because your topic is at the core of our time, our place. But not many folks are able to put this in good words, communicating a truth with implications … impacticting us individually and corporately. Its obvious that I could elaborate … but I do not feel that is the point. Again, thank you for a good post. I am going to reblog this. Do you mind? T


  2. After working in mental health for many years and conducting extensive literature reviews of available studies, I’m not convinced that what’s considered mental illness is the result of a chemical imbalance, or that it’s comparable to conditions like insulin-dependent diabetes. It’s the pathologizing of emotions and behavior that lie outside the societal norm. Researchers and the public want a magic bullet so desperately, but I think it’s society itself that creates this condition. That being said, there is certainly no shame in seeking help for one’s distress.


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      motherofnine9 yet I have seen wonderful changes in people on medication as well as disaters when they refuse to take them.
      .Michael’s youngest brother committed suicide when off meds for 5 days when he suffered from Schizophrenia and a dear friend, mother of three, leave her family for a fling with an ex tattoo covered con with another girlfriend when she went off meds for manic-depression

      helenafortissima It’s easier to blame being off one’s medications than it is to accept a person’s willing and voluntary choices.

      motherofnine9 in the case of my friend, I agree but Michael’s brother was tormented, when off meds.. no one sets fire to themselves simply because of a voluntary CHOICE


  3. Great post Melanie! I always believe mental illnesses are all somehow “physical”.
    I believe that all adults are responsible to all their actions, but, this doesn’t mean they take their actions “voluntarily”. Even a serial killers could kill people “involuntarily”. I am quite convinced, that in side our bodies, there are something more powerful than our “conscious will”.
    I tend to believe mental illnesses like schizophrenia is something related to physical matter, such as nervous systems; mental illness like depression, anxiety would have more complicated causes, include individuals’ personality and experience. No matter what, I believe no one want to suffer and no one choose to suffer, also no one deserves suffering.


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