Relax, bored kids never stay bored for long
Children thrive when they are given ample unscheduled play time. Free time to explore, use their imaginations to amuse themselves and even time to be bored because boredom is the birthplace of creativity and ingenuity.
Surrounded by babies and toddlers, I was not always free to run outside to solve every obstacle my kids faced as they played.
At first, I scrambled to help my kids with every problem with a newborn in my arms and perhaps a toddler wrapped around one of my legs. Finally, I realized that the best way to mother my kids was to stay peaceful, rather than frantically running around attempting to meet everyone’s needs at the same time. That meant older kids had to wait for me or try to figure out snags by themselves. Loud shrieks of mum gradually grew less frequent because while waiting for help, my kids often solved their own problems. Impatience is a wonderful motivator.
Six-year-old Daniel is a prime example. His grade 1 teacher recounted this story to me. It seems that she asked her grade one class this question,
“How would you open the garage door if there were no grown-ups around?”
Everybody just stared blankly at her, except for my six-year-old son. He waved his hand in the air and then excitedly blurted out,
“You just stand on a milk crate, push on the upper left-hand corner of the garage door with a hockey stick and push hard. The door comes up a bit, you jump off the crate and crawl in!!”
Today my adult children are self-starters, self-motivated and they are all creative at work, school and at home. Boredom has its place.