My First Memory

I have perky personality and a quirky sense of humour. My optimistic outlook on life rarely wavers in the face of adversity, even though I am married to a rather taciturn man with a pessimistic outlook on life. It is a comical situation given that we have been inseparable for 35 years. However my body…

When Marriage Feels Like a Meat Grinder

Why is there conflict with our partner? Coming out of the closet. The funny thing is, it is only when you face a crisis in your marriage and seek counselling, that anyone mentions  all marriages go through the meat grinder stage. In fact marriage is the perfect set-up for conflict. Put two flawed people together from……